Even though you might admit among folks that you trust that the fact that abortions are so high
Why would I admit something that's not true or relevant?
Abortion isn't relevant to abortion?
"So high" is neither true, nor relevant. If you want less abortion, help create social change that makes abortion less necessary, don't come up with excuses to restrict the rights and freedoms of others, even when you find the choices they make distasteful.
I mean, I fully agree that many of the motivations you put forth are distasteful and not, in my opinion, good reasons for an abortion, but it's not the business of the law to enforce that. Women should be free to be wrong in our opinions and get abortions for what we feel are bad or pernicious reasons. If we want to discourage that, then we should address the cultural and economic factors that lead to such decisions directly and not take the lazy way out by stomping on their individuality and rights at the end of the line with legal paternalism that declares them incompetent to make their own choices.
Like I said, you have no grasp how to use that term. You use relevance as if it were an absolute quality. Do everyone a favor and stop using the word relevant without making it clear what X is or is not relevant to.
Except you used it in reference to what _I_ would say about _my own_ beliefs. Thus I can confidently say that I'm fully qualified to judge that I find that judgement both wrong and irrelevant. I would not say such a thing because I do not believe it and I do not think it matters, nor would just about anyone that argues the same position that I do.
I simply said their defensiveness and closeness resembles yours, and has similar triggers.
Except that "defensiveness" is pure motive speculation here.\, particularly when I was not addressing your arguments, but rather you decision to smear those that come from a different perspective.