So, if a movie depicts a graphic rape scene as despicable, does that mean the rape scene won't end up as a clip on porn sites? Did putting it into the movie, that probably got an R rating as low box office, move the needle more than the millions (?) of men that will watch it over and over again stripped from context?
I just don't know. I do know that a lot of people have really confused views of things like gun violence from believing the way media presents guns. Automatic weapons show up all the time on tv, virtually never in real life. Every tv cop fires their side arm at least every couple weeks, real cops? Maybe never in their whole career.
Have you never read anything (and there are thousands of articles on it) about how portraying black kids as thugs on tv led to stereotypes? How is it possible that it's "clear" in that case, and completely impossible in the other? Answer - it's not. Marketing, propaganda, communication effectiveness all follow principals, and the reason this is "different" is just because some people want it to be considered so.