So you'd saying that rape in prison is primarily a trans problem? 
No, I did not say that.
Instead, I said it was a problem.
Ok, it's a problem. So are people who irrationally hate trans people. How big a problem? How serious a problem? How many rights of a person should be ignored/trampled upon to solve this problem?
But I guess you answered that:
one situation has a solution, and the other one doesn't, from the POV of the woman in question
So there is a simple, easy solution to this problem, right? So why not do it?
But then there is the question of what happens to trans people who are shucked off men's prisons. Wouldn't they also be subject to rape? In fact, being trans, wouldn't they be targeted more often for rape and other persecution than if they were in a women's prison? And what does that do to the trans person, being forced to live like a gender she doesn't believe she is? That causes a great deal of mental suffering, as I've heard. Isn't that just transferring the problem from one group to another? To a group, in fact, that you don't believe are the actual perpetrators of the original crime of raping women?
Ah, yes, but you acknowledge that problem:
transwomen are collateral damage, sadly, no other option, someone must lose here
Seems like the real problem is lack of imagination on your part.
But what about transferring the problem to another group? You've considered that, too.
Collateral damage yes, and I do not care, they're mentally ill (using my language of course)
Of course. You're not concerned about them because they are "mentally ill." And mentally ill people don't deserve the consideration and empathy we give "normal" people, do they? They are less than normal people, aren't they? Kinda sub-human, right? I mean, you just said that you don't consider them worth the care of other people. That puts them at a lower level, doesn't it? A "sub" level, if you will.
Which, I strongly suspect, is the real reason you're so concerned about women being raped by pseudo-trans people in women's prison. Because you're looking for any excuse to treat them as less-than-human. And even though this isn't a problem that they themselves are causing, you have no problem if they are the ones punished for it because they are mentally ill. And you have no problem punishing people who are mentally ill even if it isn't their fault.
In other words, you are full-fledged trans bigot. No wonder why your coworker made you physically ill. Because you don't think of him as a fellow human.
You really should consider talking to a psychiatrist. I think she'd be able to help you. Far more than she'd be able to help those you consider "mentally ill."
